When Do You Pray?

Faith, Spiritual Growth

When Do You Pray?

14 Comments 04 March 2010

Both the prayer of crisis and (the prayer) of formality prostitutes the art of prayer.  For prayer is to be the continuing impulse toward light, hope, inspiration, spiritual intimacy, and renewal.
Dare to Journey: with Henry Nouwen

Did you catch that?

My prayers of crisis and formality p r o s t i t u t e the beauty and power of prayer.

I’m trying to let that sink in.

Because honestly…
I pray most when I’m freaking out about someone, something or some decision.

I pray consistently when I’m supposed to: for church meetings, at small group, before I eat, etc.

The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. James 5:16

Pray continually. I Thessalonians 5:17

I don’t think the author is suggesting that we shouldn’t pray in crisis or in some formalities, but if that’s the only time we pray we miss the intimacy and relationship that comes with constant contact with our Creator.

How do you make prayer a continual part of your life?

Cross Point, Spiritual Growth, Sunday Highlights, scripture/devotions

Sunday Highlights

No Comments 24 January 2010

We had a great day at all of our campuses today!  We continued the “Pursuit” series and were challenged by Pete to “Pursue Community”.  Each of our campuses had community group leaders on site to help answer questions and connect people with a group.  Between all the campuses we have over 50 new groups ready to start!

If you are still looking to get connected to a group, here is the contact person for each campus.

Dickson – Butch Simmons – email butch@crosspoint.tv

Nashville – Natalie Robertson – email natalie@crosspoint.tv

North – Kevin Cook – email kevin@crosspoint.tv

If you are still unsure about getting connected to a group, let me encourage you to read my notes below from Pete’s message.

Pursuing Community by Pete Wilson

Proverbs reminds us that sin is stupid and it gives us a vision of the “good life”.

Most of life comes down to our ability to establish and maintain relationships.

The one thing that distinguishes consistently happy people from unhappy people is consistent, life-giving relationships.

God said at the beginning of creation that it’s not good for man to be alone.

Pursue and nurture connectedness.

Proverbs 18:1

Isolated people tend to be more prone to loneliness, depression and self-destructive behavior.

To live isolated is to live without wisdom.

Wisdom is being willing to own the responsibility and to live a life to pursue and nurture connectedness.

Speak and receive truth.

Proverbs 12:26

Romans 15:14

You will not live in transformational community until you make truth a part of your conversations and language.

Most of us tend to avoid speaking truth in our relationships.

Community without truth is artificial harmony.

Scripture doesn’t give you a pass on truth-telling.

You cannot have a healthy relationship, marriage, church, etc. and avoid conflict.

Proverbs 10:17

Proverbs 12:15

Proverbs 15:31

If you haven’t had truth spoken into your life recently, one of three things is likely happening:

  1. You are living a perfect life (not likely)
  2. You don’t have any true friends
  3. You are living pridefully and not listening

Extend and expect grace.

Proverbs 19:11

When we’re offended by other people, we choose to be hurt.  We bite back.

Proverbs 17:17

Some of you wake up every day looking to be offended.  You feed off the drama.  You look for an opportunity to bail on the relationship.

Nobody is a part of this community because you have it all together.   We are all sinners.  The only way fallen human beings really connect to one another is to realize we’re all sinners.  We need people in our lives we can expect grace from.

John 1:17b

Jesus is the only one who really balances grace and truth equally.

Which way do you lean more?  Towards grace or truth?

Jesus always defined spiritual maturity in the context of relationships.  How much do you love God and how much do you love other people?

How are you going to grow when it comes to speaking and receiving truth?

How are you going to grow in extending and expecting grace?

Spiritual Growth, personal growth, scripture/devotions

Lessons Learned the Hard Way

2 Comments 22 January 2010

Proverbs 22:7

The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender.

Just this week I was working with our bank and found myself so frustrated by all their demands.  I was thinking, “We’ve been their customer for many years, why is it so difficult to get their help when we need it?, “As long as we’re giving them money they love us, once we ask for help, we get scrutinized like crazy.”,  “Why don’t they trust us?”, etc.

And of course God brings this verse front and center for me.  I actually quoted it out loud a few times in my frustration.

It’s just practical wisdom – the borrower is servant to the leader. Period.

I remember when my husband and I first got married.  Each of us had foolishly racked up some credit card debt in college, so when we combined all of our finances we realized we had some problems….

I’m hosting the discussion for Proverbs 22 over at the 31 Day Challenge blog.  Hop on over to hear the rest of the story…

Cross Point, Spiritual Growth, Sunday Highlights, Uncategorized

Sunday Highlights

2 Comments 17 January 2010

Pursuing Financial Wisdom by Pete Wilson

People who don’t have wisdom usually don’t know they don’t have it.

Proverbs…

  • Reminds us that sin is stupid.
  • Gives us a vision of the good life.

3 Questions to Ponder About Your Money:

1) Do you see your money as a tool to bless others?

Proverbs 14:31

Proverbs 11:24-25

1 Chronicles 29:10-16

Are we honoring God with everything we’ve been blessed with?

Proverbs 3:9

2) Do you find your identity in your money?

Proverbs 10:7

We are playing dress up with our money.  We’re buying stuff we don’t need to get stuff we don’t have to impress people we don’t even like.

Proverbs 22:7

Proverbs 25:28

By not exercising control, you’re giving control to the enemy.  You are becoming a slave.

Being in debt affects your ability to give.

“You can’t give to people in need because you bought stuff you don’t need.”  Andy Stanley

3) Do you find your safety in your money?

Proverbs 18:10-11

We can be responsible with our money and still define our safety by our money rather than by God.

How much is enough?

“Enough will never be enough unless you determine how much is enough.”  Mark Batterson

Rather than your life being about how much money you can make, make it about how much money you can give?

Set giving goals rather than getting goals.

Proverbs 10:3

Our money issues always come back to trust issues.

These questions will reveal who or what you actually trust in your life.

Which question do you wrestle with the most?

I’ll go first… for me it’s #3.  I tend to find safety in having money.  I’m really taking Pete’s challenge to heart to determine how much is enough and to set giving goals rather than getting goals.

Ok, your turn!

Cross Point, Spiritual Growth, Sunday Highlights, scripture/devotions

Sunday Highlights

2 Comments 11 January 2010

It has been a crazy week for our staff getting ready for this Sunday.  Today we launched our brand new series “Pursuit” which is going to be an amazing journey pursuing wisdom…. AND we also launched our brand new family worship experience called FX!

FX launched at all 3 of our campuses and I heard great reports from all three locations.  Here are a couple of pics from the Nashville campus:

It’s so exciting to watch nearly 200 volunteers from all of our campuses come together to make FX possible.  We have amazing actors, singers, dancers and storytellers at each campus – thank you guys for using your talents to invest in our kids and parents.  I can’t wait for next month!

Pete kicked off the new series with a great message called “Why Wisdom”.  My notes are below:

Why Wisdom? by Pete Wilson

Proverbs 4:5

Proverbs 3:13

Proverbs 16:16

We go through life needing help but not really seeking it.

We don’t have to learn all our lessons in life by failing first.

Wisdom is living life in light of what you know to be true.  It’s not knowledge, it’s the application of knowledge.

What is a Proverb?

A proverb is a catchy description of the way things generally are.

Proverbs are not guaranteed formulas for success.

Why Proverbs?

We need to be reminded of just how stupid sin is.

We need a vision of the good life.  We live with the tension of wanting to live the good life and wanting to be a good person.

We will inevitably pursue a life that we think is desirable.  We pursue what we determine to be the good life.  We associate the good life with the things the media promotes – money, success, attractiveness, celebrity, etc.

We allow culture to define what the good life is.

All the popularity, attractiveness, money, etc will not protect you from the stupidity of sin.

Ecclesiastes 2:4-11

What you have viewed as the good life is not really the good life.  It’s nothing but smoke.

Transformation always starts with vision.  I have to redefine the good life in order for transformation to begin.

The good life doesn’t just fall out of the sky.  It’s gonna take commitment and work,  You have to begin to retrain your life through scripture and understanding of what the good life really is.

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I was really struck today by how warped my idea is of “the good life”.  I know God’s truth but I have allowed the pressure of culture to influence what I believe to be good and necessary for my life.  I’m ready to go on the journey of transformation to redefine the good life.

What is one thing you are going to do to redefine “the good life” and pursue wisdom?

**Hint: You can join us for the 31 Day Challenge

Cross Point, Spiritual Growth, personal growth

What are You Pursuing?

8 Comments 06 January 2010

Always striving, always pursuing…

More

Perfection

Better

Stuff

Knowledge

Influence

Acknowledgement

Validity

Acceptance

I’m always striving… always pursuing something.  Can you relate to this?  Maybe you can add a few more things to the list.

It’s so easy to find ourselves in the constant pursuit of more, but I’m continuing to realize that I tend to want more of the wrong things.

This Sunday we launch our new series “Pursuit” at Cross Point.  As we dive into the book of Proverbs, we’ll learn how the pursuit of wisdom is all the “more” we need.

We also have a great video you can check out HERE. (For some reason I couldn’t get it to embed correctly.)

Hope you’ll join us this Sunday!

Service Times:
Dickson Campus: 9:00 & 11:00 AM

Nashville Campus: 8:30, 10:00, 11:30 AM & 6:00 PM

North Campus: 9:00 & 11:00 AM

What do you find yourself constantly striving for… pursuing?

Cross Point, Spiritual Growth, scripture/devotions

Join Our 31 Day Challenge!

3 Comments 30 December 2009

Cross Point is kicking off the New Year with a great challenge!

For the month of January we would like everyone to join us in reading the book of Proverbs.

31 Days in January + 31 Books in Proverbs = Perfect Match!

I can’t think of a better way to start the new year than by diving into the wisdom of Proverbs.  And I should mention, this reading challenge will coincide nicely with our new series Pursuit.

We’ve also created a 31 Day Challenge blog where some of our staff will be hosting discussion about what we’re reading.

Join us.

Spread the word.

Start discussing at 31days.crosspoint.tv!

Spiritual Growth, Sunday Highlights, personal growth

Sunday Highlights

4 Comments 27 December 2009

“Identity Crisis” by Justin Davis

We’re really good at treating symptoms of problems rather than the problems themselves.

Our problem is an identity crisis.  We don’t live out who God has called us to be.

Genesis 3:1-7

We buy into the lie that God is not enough.

A LIE believed as though it were truth, carries the POWER OF TRUTH in our lives.

Lies that we find our identity in:

Lie #1 – Who I am is how I look. The problem with this lie is that we’re looking at a broken image.  We spend more time cultivating an outward appearance than we do cultivating a heart for God.

Lie #2 – Who I am is what I accomplish. We settle for a false definition of value, significance and purpose.

Lie #3 – Who I am is found in my marital status. We live every day feeling incomplete.

Lie #4 – Who I am is who I’m related to.

God is not the REFLECTION of your earthly father; He is the PERFECTION of your earthly father.  He is everything your dad can’t be or isn’t.

Psalm 139:13-18

You have value because God created you.  You have value because you bear the image of God.

Your earthly VALUE was determined through God’s work in CREATION.

2 Corinthians 5:17, 21

Your heavenly VALUE was determined through Christ’s work on the CROSS.

God thought you were worth redeeming.

“Most people spend a lifetime trying to become what they already are.” Neil Anderson

You don’t need a New Year’s RESOLUTION; you need an identity REVOLUTION.

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At the end of the service Justin gave us time to reflect and then we finished with the song “Stop the World” by Matthew West. Reflect on these lyrics:

The TV is talking
The telephone’s ringing
The lights are all on
And the radio’s screaming
A million distractions are stealing my heart from You
I’m tired and empty
This life is relentless
It weakens my knees
And breaks my defenses
It’s wearing me down and I’m desperate to hear from You

Stop the world I wanna get out
I need an escape away from this crowd
Just to hear You speak to me

I need to be still before I make a move
I need to be humble with nothing to prove
I need Your Word to show me the truth
And I need time, precious time

Stop the world I wanna get out
I need an escape away from this crowd
Just to hear You speak to me
Stop the world I’m ready to listen
Show me sign, give me a vision of heaven
I can hold on to
Stop the world I need some time with You

Before I can find my voice
I need to hear Your voice
Above all the senseless noise

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As you prepare for 2010, I challenge you to reflect on those last few lines of the song.  Find your identity in who God has made you to be!

Spiritual Growth, scripture/devotions

Lighten Up

6 Comments 19 November 2009

Recently one of our staff was telling me about the opportunity he had to meet Michael W. Smith.  He was so stinkin’ excited that he got to shake his hand and get his picture taken.  I smiled politely and said “Wow, that’s great” with as much enthusiasm as I could muster.  You see, I worked in the Christian music business for 9 years so hanging out with Christian celebrities doesn’t feel that exciting to me anymore.

But as Blake walked away, I was totally convicted that I didn’t celebrate his joyful moment.  That was an exciting opportunity for him.  Smitty is someone he looks up to, admires, and respects.  He made a memory with that meeting.

Sometimes, well… most of the time, I take life way too seriously.  I miss the little moments… the sweet celebrations… the pockets of joy in an otherwise hectic world.

We can never under estimate the power of “joy.”  I’m pretty sure it’s a fruit of the spirit for a big reason.

By definition Joy means:

  1. the emotion of great delight or happiness caused by something exceptionally good or satisfying; keen pleasure; elation
  2. a source or cause of keen pleasure or delight; something or someone greatly valued or appreciated
  3. the expression or display of glad feeling; festive gaiety
  4. a state of happiness or felicity

Dallas Willard says

Full joy is our first line of defense against weakness, failure, and disease of mind and body.

This joy stuff is pretty powerful!

For you make me glad by your deeds, O LORD;
I sing for joy at the works of your hands.

Psalm 92:4

What joyful moment do you need to embrace today?

Cross Point, Spiritual Growth, Sunday Highlights

Sunday Highlights – Faith, Hope & Love (week 2)

4 Comments 25 October 2009

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This is such a powerful series!  Not only is it a huge season of faith and growth for us as a church, but how God is working in individual lives is amazing!

Here are my notes from Pete’s message today:

Faith is not just a belief in a statement, it’s trust in a person.

Without trust and faith, your relationship won’t go to the next level.  This is not only true in your relationships with others, it’s also true in your relationship with God.

Genesis 1:

Genesis 16:1-3

Abraham starts to manipulate the situation.

The devil only has one lie, and that is to cast critical doubt on God’s character.

It’s not happening the way Abraham thought it should happen, so he starts to take control.

Abraham assumes he knows what God thinks.  We get in all kinds of trouble when we assume that God thinks and works the way we do.

What do you do in your life when God isn’t moving fast enough for you?

What do you do when your dreams aren’t happening the way you thought they would happen?  It doesn’t mean your life is out of control.  It means you’re not in control.

Control is the greatest of all allusions that you’ll face in your life.

Obedience is the key.  Miracles always happen on the other side of obedience.

Genesis 22:1-2

Abraham comes to a wall – God is asking him to sacrifice his only son who is the fulfillment of a promise that greatly impacts the future God promised.

The wall represents when our will and God’s will collide.  Our ability to handle our lives is over.  We start to question ourselves.  We start to question God.

At the wall, you have more questions than answers.  The very foundation of your faith feels like it’s slipping away.

God loves you enough to strip you of anything that keeps you from Him.

The wall is the place where we need to relinquish anything that we cling to for identity. (work, religion, dreams, need for control, desire for approval)

Abraham doesn’t argue.  He obeys.

Abraham finds a way to remember “God is with us.”  He builds altars to remind himself that he can trust God.

History tells us God does not forget His people and He’s not going to start with you.  God is faithful.

Abraham created altars to mark moments where God was faithful.  What are the trigger points/moments in your life that remind you what God has done?  You have to have these moments to remind you so you won’t give up in the tough times.  What altars are you creating in your life to mark those moments where God was faithful?

God is big enough that we can trust Him.  God is faithful.

Genesis 22:9-12

Some of us refuse to go further because we can’t see the way. (from Thomas Merton quote)

You will get to a place – you will get to a wall – where God is trying to get you to the place where you surrender your plans for His plans.  Will you remember that God is who He says He is?

Is there a wall that you’re facing in your life right now?  Is so, how can I pray for you?

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