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book review, personal growth, reading

March Book of the Month

11 Comments 10 March 2010

I’m a little late in posting March’s book of the month, but I was pretty sure I knew it needed to be this book.  I just needed to finish it first.

I told you a few weeks ago that I thought this book would be life-changing.  I feel like I’ve already won an insecurity battle by admitting that I needed this book.  But truly, we all need this book.

Women – this disease of insecurity is crippling us.  It may rear it’s ugly head in different ways for each of us, but I really think you’ll find yourself somewhere in the pages of this book.

Men – you are not exempt.  Although Beth writes this to women, she shares some insights on how this affects you guys too.  We also know we drive you crazy with our insecurity crap, so maybe reading this would give you a bit more insight into the mental and emotional battle we’re fighting daily.

Here are some of my favorite quotes from the book:

The enemy of your soul has a tremendous amount to gain if you don’t deal with your insecurities.

Insecurity is not the same thing as sensitivity.

Insecurity’s best cover is perfectionism.  That’s where it becomes an art form.

Not only will insecurity cheat us of reaching and then operating consistently at maximum potential, it also will turn our coworkers into threats and trap us into becoming posers.

Insecurity lives in constant terror of loss.

It’s up to us whether or not we’re going to let the worst of us get the best of us.

We will never feel better about ourselves by becoming more consumed with ourselves.

Unchecked and unhealed, it (insecurity) makes an idiot out of us over and over.

Hitting any nerves yet?

If you are ready to take the leap, I challenge you to go get your copy of So Long, Insecurity

Have you read it yet? What would you add?

book review, reading

On My List

7 Comments 19 January 2010

Recently someone asked me on Twitter what’s on my reading list for this year,

so… I thought I would share with you what’s on my radar so far:

Good to Great and the Social Sectors by Jim Collins

The Leadership Pipeline by Charan, Drotter & Noel

Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell

Tribal Leadership by Logan, King & Fischer-Wright

Paul, Women & Wives by Craig Keener

Sacred Rhythms by Ruth Haley Barton

Management of the Absurd by Richard Farson

Surprised by Joy by C.S. Lewis

Necessary Dreams by Anna Fels

The Leader’s Voice by Crossland & Clarke

Open by Andre Agassi

Those are the ones waiting in line on my shelves.  I’ll add more as the year goes.  I like to have a mix of new books and older books.  I also have rule that everything I read is based upon recommendation.

Currently I’m in the middle of:

  • Going Rogue by Sarah Palin
  • Put Your Dream to the Test by John C. Maxwell
  • My Sister’s Keeper by Jodi Piccoult
  • True North by Bill George

And I recently finished this book:

I’ve just recently discovered Bill George and I’m really enjoying his books.  7 Lessons for Leading in Crisis is a great, practical resource especially if you find yourself facing an unexpected leadership crisis.

What is on your reading list this year?

Leadership, book review, reading

Marcus Buckingham – Find Your Strongest Life

2 Comments 05 October 2009

Find Your Strongest Life

I don’t remember exactly when I became a fan.

I just vividly remember thinking “this guy is BRILLIANT!”

His perspective on taking your God-given uniquenesses and channeling those towards being the most effective, thriving, fulfilled person you can be  resonated with me so deeply.

And so, I have consumed every book he has written.  I have listened every chance I’ve had to hear him speak.  I’ve watched his videos and I’ve taken all of our staff through the Strengths Finder materials.

Imagine how excited I was when I learned that he was writing a book SPECIFICALLY FOR WOMEN!

In Find Your Strongest Life: What the Happiest and Most Successful Women Do Differently Marcus puts into data and words the feelings that I think women leaders have wrestled with as we’ve continued to make greater strides over the last several decades in our careers.  The startling reality?  We’re less happy now than we were decades ago when we had less options and less opportunities.  Seems kind of backwards, right?  In our attempt to “have it all” we’re finding ourselves more and more miserable.  Marcus attempts to redefine “having it all” and then walks us through some data, myths and choices that we need to evaluate in order to find our strongest life.

If you’re a woman trying to “have it all”, Marcus is going to hit a nerve… well, really a lot of nerves… as you read through this book.  The book is a very quick read.  That can be good or bad depending on your perspective.  For me, it was too quick.  And if you’ve been a Marcus fan for some time, you are going to see a lot of regurgitated material from his other books.  There’s probably no way around that since he’s staying focused on his strength of empowering others to find theirs – you can only say the same thing in different ways so many times.  But if you are brand new to Marcus, you’ll love it!

Here’s my favorite quote from the book and a quick video of Marcus telling you about the book himself.

“The psychological result of too many choices is that we’re always in search of an elusive perfection.”

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book review, reading

Fearless by Max Lucado

2 Comments 08 September 2009

Fearless

“Envision the day when you can trust more and fear less.”

That’s the hope that Max Lucado is trying to inspire in each of us with his very timely new release “Fearless”.  Throughout the book, Lucado talks us through some of our most gripping fears and challenges us to get to this critical conclusion: “when Christ is great, our fears are not.”

The best parts of this book for me were the first and last chapters.  As I dove into the first chapter, I was high-lighting like crazy the fear phrases that I really connected with.  I was hopeful that this book could help me tackle what is proving to be a big issue in my life right now.  But I’ll be honest, after I got into a few of the next chapters I became pretty bored.  Perhaps that’s because Lucado’s style is more storytelling and I just wanted to get to some tough stuff that would get me thinking. -  No fluffy stuff.  Let’s get down to business! -  I was beginning to feel like I was getting the pat answer of “don’t fear” to an issue that’s much more complicated and deeply rooted.

However, I pushed through to the end (mostly because I was committed to doing this review) and honestly I was very pleasantly surprised by the ending chapter “The One Healthy Terror – Fear of God Getting Out of My Box”.  This chapter saved this book for me.  It brought me back to the foundational issue of my fear – the need for God to be great in my life.  “When Christ is great, our fears are not.”

PS – One of the things that is really well done is the 38 page discussion guide at the end.  This book would be a GREAT resource for small groups!  In fact, I think these chapters would have the potential to come to life for me in a greater way in the context of group discussion!

Leadership, Learning, book review

Fearful or Fearless?

7 Comments 17 August 2009

Fearless

I’m pretty excited to be starting this book tonight!  I got my advance copy this weekend and I’m excited to be blogging about it on September 8th when it releases.

I don’t think this book could be any more timely… at least for me.

This year has been riddled with fear for me.

Fear of…

  • not being good enough
  • trusting in my own strength too much
  • not being smart enough
  • being a “know-it-all”
  • not being qualified
  • not knowing what I don’t know
  • not being quick enough
  • being too hasty
  • not being decisive
  • being impatient
  • not giving good counsel
  • not listening
  • not being sensitive enough
  • being too sensitive

… the list could go on and on.

I have no idea what Max Lucado is going to share in Fearless.  But as part of the leadership team of an incredibly fast-moving, growing organization I know that I face fears everyday.  And the “grey leadership” issue for me is to understand and lead through the difference of healthy fear and paralyzing fear.  There are some fears that I think are healthy in that they keep me grounded and aware of my total need to rely on God and His strength, and then there are some fears that just simply paralyze me because I’ve become a slave to them.

Does that make sense?

What would you say is the difference between “healthy fear” and “paralyzing fear”?

Business, book review, church administration, reading

How the Mighty Fall

2 Comments 04 August 2009

It’s been a little while since I’ve done a book review.  Not because I haven’t been reading.  Just because nothing has wowed me enough to tell you about it.

Well, the drought is over.

I finally finished Jim Collins new book “How the Mighty Fall” and LOVED IT!

How the mighty fall

There’s no question I’m a Jim Collins fan.  I believe “Good to Great” is the defining business book of our generation.  “Right seat on the bus”, “hedgehog”, “flywheel”… all terms that have become part of our universal vocabulary as leaders.  But honestly I wasn’t sure what to expect from “How the Mighty Fall”.  I was definitely intrigued by the concept but frankly wondered if Jim had a another great book in him.

What I love about this book is that Jim wrestles with a fear that leaders of any organization wrestle with “what if we fail?”  As a church leader, I can’t help but watch the dying churches all over America and wonder “how did they get there?” No church sets out to reach hundreds of people, have a thriving, growing ministry and then one day find themselves rapidly declining and struggling to pay the bills.

Let me clarify.  There are differences between businesses and churches and I’m not suggesting that “How the Mighty Fall” is the antidote for struggling churches.  What I am saying is that reading Jim’s observations and analysis of businesses that have fallen provides a framework from which to ask questions and seek direction.  In fact, one of the chapters of the book could have easily been called “pride goes before destruction” (Proverbs 16:18).  It wasn’t difficult to find some Biblical themes running through this one in regard to the lack of character, integrity and wisdom of the leaders of companies that had fallen.

Here are a few quotes from the book that got me thinking:

“Every institution is vulnerable, no matter how great.  No matter how much you’ve achieved, no matter how far you’ve gone, no matter how much power you’ve garnered, you are vulnerable to decline.”

“While no leader can single-handedly build an enduring great company, the wrong leader vested with power can almost single-handedly bring a company down.”

“The signature of mediocrity is not an unwillingness to change.  The signature of mediocrity is chronic inconsistency.”

“When you abandon hope, you should begin preparing for the end.”

Have you read the book?  What would you add?

book review, personal growth, reading

Book Review: Andy Stanley's The Principle of the Path

3 Comments 11 May 2009

Principle of the Path

Direction – not intention – determines our destination.

That’s the simplicity of Andy Stanley’s “The Principle of the Path”.  In his book, Andy explains why this simple principle has such a profound impact on every area of our lives.  He shares how each decision we make affects our destination.  Whether a failed relationship, an unmet dream, or unrealized goal there was likely a step/a decision that you made that took you down a path that led you to that destination.  By sharing personal examples, Biblical stories and practical application, Andy brings this principle to life.  He’s also careful to acknowledge that some destinations are out of our reach and beyond our control, and yet the decisions we make in these moments still impact our destination.

I love this book and I hate this book at the same time.  I love this book because it’s logical.  It makes sense.  It makes me feel like I do have some control over my life and it challenges me to be wise about the paths that I choose.  I hate this book because it forces me to realize that my choices have consequences and no matter what my intentions are, my direction, not my intentions determines my destination.

In a day and age where society has taught us to blame everyone else for why life hasn’t turned out the way we wanted to, Andy Stanley gives you a good kick-in-the-pants to take personal responsibility for how your decisions affect your destination.  Be warned! You will wrestle some emotions and morn some unmet dreams as you read this book, but in the end you will close the backcover encouraged and empowered to make some decisions that impact your direction and ultimately your destination.

book review, personal growth, reading

"The Noticer" by Andy Andrews

2 Comments 27 April 2009

the-noticer

The subtitle of this book really sums it up quite well: “Sometimes, all a person needs is a little perspective.”  Perspective is the power of this story.  In The Noticer Andy Andrews retells his own dramatic story of gaining life-changing perspective from a little old man named “Jones”.  Jones, a self-proclaimed “noticer” weaves his way into the lives of people from all walks of life and challenges them to consider their perspective.  The imprint that Jones leaves on these lives, including Andy’s, is nothing less than remarkable and inspirational.

This is going to sound like a really big statement but I believe The Noticer is one of those rare books that has the power to start a movement that could change our generation.  In our fast-paced, ego-centric,  on-demand society we need more than ever to see things, especially people, with fresh perspective.  As Jones says in the book “a grateful perspective brings happiness and abundance into a person’s life”.  This book reminds us of just how valuable our days are and how much more meaningful everyday is if we choose to look at it differently.

“While it is true that most people never see or understand the difference they make, or sometimes only imagine their actions having a tiny effect, every single action a person takes has far-reaching consequences.”

Every single action a person takes has far-reaching consequences. These are some powerful words… and if we take them seriously and apply them to our lives, there is no end to the impact we could have on the people around us.

This is the kind of stuff that Andy gets you thinking about in The Noticer.  By sharing Jones’ story of how he counseled, coached and questioned others into seeing life from a different perspective, you can’t help but shift your own perspective… “to regroup, take a breath, and begin your life again”.

My suggestion: Buy it, read it, gift it to a friend, and then read it again.

The Noticer releases tomorrow, April 28th.  Go check out more here!

Cross Point, book review, reading

So Churched!

9 Comments 30 December 2008

churched

I’m a little embarrassed to admit that I finally read this book.  I skimmed it when it came out… kind of an appropriate nod to the author who happens to attend Cross Point.  Heck, I even consider Matthew and his wife Jessica friends, but unfortunately I let the busyness of this fall keep me from making reading this book a priority.  (Sorry Matthew!)

I missed out!

Once I picked it up and committed to it, I couldn’t put it down.  I found glimpses of myself in Matthew’s stories of growing up in a Fundamental Baptist Church.  I identified too well with the stories and characters.  I chucked at the fact that had we grown up in that church together, Matthew and I would have been arch rivals in Sword Drills and I would have condemned him for sleeping in church while I took good notes of the sermon.

If you haven’t already, you really need to go check this book out.  If you grew up in a conservative, traditional church environment, you’ll revisit some old memories with fresh eyes and if you didn’t grow up in that environment… well, you’ll just have a good laugh at those of us who did!

If you’ve read it, tell us what you thought!

By the way, what’s on your reading list for 2009?

My Life, book review, hobbies, reading

What are you reading?

28 Comments 08 December 2008

I love to read!

Unfortunately, finding dedicated time to read is one of my greatest challenges these days.   Any time that I can sneak away with a book is a treasure for me.

Here’s what I’ve been reading:

tribes

Just finished Seth’s latest.  I love his writing… his perspective… his candor, but I loved Tribes because of it’s focus on leadership.

axiom

I’m currently reading Bill Hybels newest book Axiom.  Great short leadership proverbs!

secret-life-of-bees

And in fiction, I’m finally reading The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd.  Loving this one as well!

What are you reading right now?

One of my rules for reading is that I won’t read anything that hasn’t been recommended to me, so send me your recommendations!

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Jenni Catron is the Executive Director of Cross Point Church, a multi-site church in the Nashville, TN area.
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